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Post by alison1410 on Jan 4, 2008 18:21:59 GMT 8
haha..i know its quite stupid to post this thread but just
mayb u guys can tell me what to do now???
i like this guy(not sure its love or not)
and i want to be with him
but he just seem to ignore me
and sometimes he dont even talk to me
even though i talk to him often
and got some one-word-answer
actually before i start liking him
we were rivals...in class i mean
so now....so sad...
=(
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Post by mac001 on Jan 4, 2008 20:04:33 GMT 8
Have u told him, what are u feeling?
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Post by isikenai on Jan 4, 2008 22:28:41 GMT 8
Sounds like the set-up for a shoujo manga!  But for serious, some guys are just really hard to crack. You've got to just keep talking to him and try to get him out of his shell. If you try for awhile and it's still not working, maybe the best thing is just to tell him that you like, if only for your own sanity... it can be so hard to like a guy and not say anything to him. |
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Post by quig on Jan 4, 2008 23:22:33 GMT 8
yar exactly. its hard to change the perception of a guy  hai sometimes i feel they're a good example of the old saying 'a leopard never changes its spots' but i think taking a chance and telling him would be ok! (: good luck n all the best! maybe u should say it in ur most sincere n matter of fact manner so he knows that u are really serious, not just joking/playing around . wishing u all the best!(: |
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Post by mac001 on Jan 4, 2008 23:37:03 GMT 8
Heh... "it can be so hard to like a guy and not say anything to him." right.. I love a guy for 10 years now... I told him last year, that i love him, but he said, "just friends"... And he is 10 years older than me (he is 31 now)... But i still cannot forget him... I hope ur guy will love u back  omg, i'm not normal, and i tell it to everyone..... well.... this sentance was also not normal... ok, i finished..... |
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Post by isikenai on Jan 5, 2008 0:01:19 GMT 8
Aw mac001! *hugs!* You poor thing, that must of hurt I hope he realizes what he's missing. I said that cause I myself find it very agonizing to like a guy and not say anything. After awhile I get sick of keeping it in and just blurt XD It's probably not the same with everyone though... I'm just impatient  |
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Post by komet on Jan 5, 2008 0:13:24 GMT 8
Write a letter of confession! IT'S THE ONLY WAY!  |
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Post by sweetstuff94 on Jan 5, 2008 0:22:52 GMT 8
i prefer doing it face to face u know...
That way you can express ur feeling enuff and tat he can't pretend nt to receive ur letter or wat so ever.
U can nvr imagine wat a guy will do and how they'll react,
and mac001!!!
I'm so sorry that the guy told u tat ur jus frens.
That must have hurt alot!
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Post by mac001 on Jan 5, 2008 0:24:33 GMT 8
isikenai: *hugs back* And I get sick of keeping it too... but just after9 years... I was stupid, not tell him before.. Yeah, letter is not bad, but u have to face him... think about it!!!! Sweetstuff94: yeah, it still hurts... For me love is a one-sided, little painful thing... but i used to it I wish i can forget him... |
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Post by dyana on Jan 5, 2008 13:01:57 GMT 8
ooh u guys really have a brave to confess that i never confess to everyone, but i'm waiting for someone confess his feelings to me..  i like someone too last year, but i never meet him again he already graduated from my university... sometime i miss him anyway alison140: u can tell him if u like him, before it's late.. |
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Post by iyai2 on Jan 5, 2008 13:08:13 GMT 8
Write a letter of confession! IT'S THE ONLY WAY! Lol, haven't we seen those in movies...and then something always go wrong....but maybe in real life it won't be that dramatic...so you could try writing him a letter. Maybe the guy's just ignoring you because since you guys were rivals...it's kinda hard for him to adjust to you being extra nice to him now??? Just guessing...I'm no help |
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Post by lovesjwz on Jan 5, 2008 22:36:10 GMT 8
i also love this boy who is 1 year older than me for 3years and a half.
until now, i don't even dare confess. my friends ask me to confess too.
mac001 is right, its hard to like a guy and not saying anything to him.
3of my friends knows about this only. hard to tell them about these r/s problems too.
what do i do?
i don't even talk to him much since the middle of sec 1. Before that, we do talk quite alot.
its like middle of sec1 till now, sec4 we talk less than 10words >.< &he graduated *cries*
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But for serious, some guys are just really hard to crack. You've got to just keep talking to him and try to get him out of his shell. If you try for awhile and it's still not working, maybe the best thing is just to tell him that you like, if only for your own sanity... it can be so hard to like a guy and not say anything to him.
