Love Encounters

[mac001]

So u talked a lot right? So he know u, and u know him... has he a gf? If not, i think u should confess.. in letter, or personally... i can just repeat myself u have to face it!!!

[luvingfrh]

anyone could help?
im in sec1 this year,
and i think im beginning to fall in love with this sec 3 senior.
i got to know him in sec one orientation camp as hes my councillor in charge.
alot of my classmates wanted his phone number, but he said that he only give his phone number to his special grp of frens. i asked him secretly and he wanted to give me. but later on, he said no but i think cos theres alot ppl arnd. now i dunno wad to do!! i might not even see him or talk to him anymore... oh, i have his msn tho. (:

[isikenai]

Well it's probably best not to pester him too much for his phone number, he might feel apprehensive about giving it out to someone he doesn't know as well, he might think you'll tell other people. If you have his msn though, add him and talk to him! What does sec1 and sec3 mean? Sorry I live in Australia and we use a different system in our schools

[Trixie]

Wow, so many captivating love stories...lets set these up for a potential drama!!!

Okay on topic, to Allison: First off, from what I've observed, I think that he'd feel somewhat "weird/awkward" since you guys WERE rivals after all. To tell you the truth, the path to confrontation especially with your situation won't be easy at all. You just have to have confidence and courage because what if he feels the same way? You don't want to live in regret do you? So, it's best to tell him before its too late!

Luvingfrh: Same goes for you. If you have his MSN, use it! Don't be afraid because talking to him online is WAYYY easier than real life right? Well ask him if you could meet him somewhere, and that's when you ask for his phone # (;.

I hope this helps because there are countless of individuals who experience the same scenario as you guys do. Lets have confidence girls!!!

[iyai2]

wow, lots of love stories here...macoo1...that's so sad. Everyone else...I PERSONALLY THINK THAT IT'S BEST TO CONFESS YOUR FEELINGS BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE...

Although I don't do that...I rather just be at the side and silently help and assist him whenever he's in need of support....but don't get the wrong idea...I'm not in love with anyone (maybe jiro... ).

[lovesjwz]

i saw the guy i like/love today. but both of us don't dare say hello to each other
even now, i'm wondering if i should give up on him

[luvingfrh]

lovesjwz, dun give up! take the initative to say hi! like wad i did. XD
oh mi gosh! hes online now! Ahhhhhhh~
*zi high*

[mac001]

To everyone: Do ur best (ganbatte) and tell him, what u are feeling!! So there will be 2 choice for him: yes or no... But if u don't tell him, there's no choice, right?

[luvingfrh]

i typed out "ily" but backspaced 3 spaces. x-X

[sweetstuff94]

luvingfrh!!!

lol,ok dun be so straight forward to the ily part,

jus try to hav a simple chat ten be subtle and tell him tat u hav erm feelings for him,

atleast the sooner u get it over with then it's better,

dun u tink so??

[luvingfrh]

LOL. im actually afraid that if im rejected, we might not even be frens. isnt that sadder?

[sweetstuff94]

well i tink if u continue having feelings for him,

and u dun tell him then the feeling bcomes deeper,

and l8r on if u confess or he finds out then u erm *touch wood* get rejected isn't tat going to hurt more?

fear of rejection is common but yea,

i like to get theings over with,

maybe u can say it's fine if u dun accept me we can still be frens.

i confessed once and well we're bff's now lol